Friday, August 17

Love is blind... is it true?

My tag line on Gtalk today was - If love is blind, why is lingerie so popular?

And few of my freinds couldnt u'stand...
By this i meant, If people say Love is blind than y do they go for appearances...
and trust me, i firmly believe in that... to me looks doesnt matter, if i say it doesnt matter at all, i'll be lying, but ya frankly speaking they dont matter much....

for me what matters is how much that person cares for me, to what extend he is ready to accept me the way Iam॥ cos i knw am tooo difficult too handle... :P
and how much he loves me... and ya i'll be modest enough to say money too i dont care about... (and am not lying in this regards),

but ya what i cant stand is Ignorance... ( iam callin s'one like mad's and he doesnt take my calls... just kills me 1000 deaths, i mean no matter how busy ur atleast a msg wud have dun)

I always crib, that am not good looking and not beautiful n sexy like other gals...
i feel bad wen e'one keeps on telling me to reduce weight,and than i might get married... and i just ask one question-- wat if i put on weight after my marriage.. wont it be cheating wid that guy...
Some how i always wat a guy who loves me for wat Iam... not wat he was looking for....

The same i was discussing with a freind of mine and he asked me to look at the pic of a famous Singer Seal and his wife...

















And i was surprised to see this couple...

It actually it made me sure of the fact that love needs no physical appearance, if u love a person thats more than enough to spend a lifetime with that person...

To many it might be sounding like am too fantasized or am talkin like Madhuri Dixit in Dil toh Pagal Hai, remember that dialogue where she says, " Bhagwan ne hume jodo main banaya hai, par unka milna hum par chood diya hai,woh bas ek ishara dega aur main samajh lungi ki yeh wohi hai." and i dun knw why but i believe in this... i know its too filmy, too far off from practicality but i dun want to get into it...
And i think thats why i keep being hurt.. am too emotional...

I think abt HIM so much and care about HIM too much.. at time seriously i get suffocated by myself but just cant help... i think to stay uncertainty has become part of my life...

i knw his answer is NO, but somewhere am jst waitin for a day when wen realizes there is s'one here waiting for him eagerly... though he is too egoist he would never say,even if am going away from him and if he is hurt.... just dunno....

Ah!! i started all that crap again... my dilemma's and fantasy world will never come to an end...
but ya was talking about this couple...

check out there another pics..Doesnt this pics shows there love for each other...
Hope this is not getting too Filmy...

But neways i was just mesmerized.... I believe beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder... :)

and ya ---- AM CHOOSY,BUT ALWAYS IN LOVE....



2 comments:

Abhinav Singh said...

Mitali, this world is not as good as u think………..For Indians beauty is everything [and believe me, its always external. They won’t let a person live in peace if the person[mostly the female] fails to qualify on their parameter of beauty[Always external]…….And they love to harass such people and leave no stones unturned to keep their morale and self esteem down. Even after the person is dead. Trust me we are the world’s biggest racists and hypocrites. No one cares how u r from within. Duniya ko bas maze lena aata hai at others expense.

Mits said...

@abhinav,
ur right, thats y am being hurt e'time...

we are really hypocrites....
i wish we can change there way of thinking, in our own way..