Sunday, July 1

"Aab jo kiye ho daata,aisa na keejo....."

I was watching "Umrao Jaan" (new one), with mom in the morning and realized all daughters are soo attached with there Dad's and same is with me ...
Me n dad will fight for hours and we will never agree.... if dad says left, i'll say right... but above all i love him a lot ... and miss him a lot... :(

heard the song in the movie... "Aab jo kiye ho daata, aage na keejo... aagle janam mohe bitiya na keejo..." and almost had tears in my eyes... and realised no matter how modern we become, girls are still considered to be "paraya dhaan",in other words Burden, it must be sounding too cliche but its true...
I can say it cos am going thru it ... i see my dad so worried for my marriage and things not happening, etc.. etc..
I dont know why Marriage for a gal is considered to be so important... a guy can stay bachelor till watever age he wants but for a gal, she needs to marry at a particular age...

i do u'stand there concern, as they stay in a society where people questions you again n again .. thats why i just hate this community or society affair....
even today if any of my realtives calls ther second question after hi-hello is "Aur Appu ki shadi kab kar rahe ho," and followd by 10 stupid gud for nothing proposals... ah! its so damm irritating...

And now talkin abt my irony... after years of my parents slogging, iam ready to settle but again have chosen a guy abt him am not sure....:( hehehheheh... i have told my parents abt my choice and whenever they find me chattin or talkin wid him they question, wat have u guys decided and am speechless and keep making stupid excuses.... and not to forget my mom keeps complaining to e'one that my daughter doesnt tell her anything... the other day my mamiji asked me -wt cooking btn me n HIM, and again i had nothing to say..

Y they dont u'stand even i dont know wat is in his mind....and am just fallen for him ... :(
just hoping this time my destiny doesnt plays back on me....

these lines of the songs were most touching....

"humare sajanavaa humaraa dil aisaa todan
woh ghar basaayan humakaa rasataa maa chhodan
jaise ki lallaa koi khilaunaa jo paave
do chaar din to khelan phir bhul jaave
ro bhi naa paave aisi gudiyaa naa ki jo
agale janam mohe bitiyaa naa ki jo -
jo ab kiye ho daataa aisaa naa ki jo
agale janam mohe bitiyaa naa ki jo"

2 comments:

Abhinav Singh said...

ya i toatally agree with ur blog. I've seen this in my family as well. having an unmarried girl is still a burden in indian society and draws hell lot of speculations and silly questions. What went wrong? Koi dimaagi uljhan? any break up...the works! And the Indian society is rude and intrusive enough to ask personal questions.
Co-incidentally, my family too watched the film yesterday, shown on a movie channel.And i too like the lines u wrote very much. Beautyful lyrix.
But i wanna share something stupid with u.This is gonna spoil the sensibility of ur blog , but it's really funny[and cheapoo]but bura na maaniyo...jst wanted 2 tell u dis.While v were watching this film;for some unknown reason my bitch looked really sad. So my mom gave a smile when i worked up instant lyrics...ab jo kiye ho data , aisa na kijo...........................agle janam mohe kutiya na kijo...it matched perfectly with her expressions:-)
OOPS , told ya no offences!!!

Mits said...

hahahha... aunti bhi na!
and yar no offence to anyone...
waise kya lyrics match ki hain...
hehehhhe