Girls are meat, dead meat - Shobhaa De

I started to write about my great good morning.. but suddenly my friend called and my mind changed!!

So,i started thinking on these tracks ....
Now, the story goes like this,
This is one gal heartbroken makes a friend, who use to like her since long but as she was already going around so she didnt pay much attention to him... and later he shifts to different city and starts to mail her and slowly and gradually they start to talk over the phone for hours n hours....
and get close... One fine day she calls me and says, Mitu i think i am in love, and i was like with whom... and than she narrates the whols story to me...
i was happy but quite worried, worried cos, at time my gutt feeling are so strong and true tat it amazes me, and same happened with this time ..
somewhere at back of my mind i knew it there is something gonna go wrong..
And, than one fine day i receive a call from her, she was crying and sayin "i was used ...." and i was all numb...after listening to her story i was like as if am goin back to my past... all the bad memories of him flashed over me for a sec .... I had to console her but had no wrds to say... gathered all my courage and said sweetu, forget it and step a ahead... i knew it, it wasnt easy (till date am not over it) but had to...
After talking wid her for over an hour... i sat back and started to think again...
Are girls the only emotionalyy fools on this earth... though i knw even guys are emotional... but wat makes them behave like that, that they dont even bother about the others feelings...
they can so easily leave u for someone... without even thinking once wat will happen to the gal wid whom u very so cosy n all...
Was it only the urge of sex,wat brought them together ?
chalo leave this aside... after goin on steady for a year and a half u are leaving her saying ur characterless and have physical relation wid other guys.... WTF, damm u asshole, for past a year n half wen u were Fu**ing her than u didnt realise this?
and chalo, even if she did go bed wid s'one else ( which iam sure is not the case), than was sex such an important for you that all the love and affection which she poured over you was gone...
AH!! this just ridicilous...
Are we a tissue paper, just use n throw off....

Last night as my habit was reading THE WEEK, and i like shobhaa de's coloumn named "The Sexes." (its not abt sex honey, its abt e'thing in this wrld...and sex.. heheheh)
This time the article was" Girls are meat, dead meat - Shobhaa De ".
where she was refering a gal named Kaushambi Layek, who was shot dead by his boyfriend, who was married and the reason of her murder was, her denial, fuck man !! how disgusting...
the moment i read this article, all i cud imagine was the pain my friend wud be goin through...

To, sum up... My humble request to the male feternity, is Plz PLZ .. be open wat u want from a gal... and be very clear in the begining abt ur needs from a relation, so that the gal dont have drreams attached and she knows in which direction her relation is heading...
Because, wen dreams are shatterd, it hurt,and it hurts damm bad !!