Happy Holidays... Whhoooo Wooohhhh

Am so excited to go home this time..
Too many things waiting for me... :D
Hippiee... Just cant wait till Sunday now...
Company gave additional leave to all the employee's on 27th, so this save my 5 days leaves...
Am sooo happy.. :D

Its about HER !!!

To begin with ---

----- When I say, "I love you," it's not because I want you or because I can't have you. It has nothing to do with me. I love what you are, what you do, how you try. I've seen your kindness and your strength. I've seen the best and the worst of you. And I understand with perfect clarity exactly what you are --- i AM a hell of a woman.”---

This is for all those guys who are looking eiter married or about to marry and wants Miss Perfect and are unable to, hope this side of Us can bring some kindda change..

Tomorrow you may get a working woman,but you should marry with these facts as well.

Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;

Who is earning almost as much as you do;

One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are;

One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system,

that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements,

One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters,

almost asmuch as you do for 20-25 years of her life;

One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family,name.

One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environmentand that kitchen.

One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, may be more,and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother,a wife, even if she doesn't want to;

and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her;

and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding,

or if she learns faster than you;

One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy,

unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;

Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can,

but won't, Because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise.

One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;

One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her;

One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she know sin your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly -

your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

But not many guys understand this......

Please appreciate "HER"

I hope you will do.... NOW ...

Daman trip... AAHH ... UUHHH... Baaadddd...

Went to Daman day before yesterday... for a factory visit...
It was Cable factory -Polycab Industries...

Inititally wen my boss askd me to lead the factory Inspection, i was very happy.. thought it'll be a gud stress buster... no working for 2 days... will be in daman for days, fulltu masti for 2 days an that to on company expenses..

Undoubtedly, the place was very peaceful, and wonderful scenery and heard the beaches were too gud... :( as i went with Jerks cudnt even visit those place... Ah... am so irritated rite now.. cant even express in words...

I mean u can imagine how one wud feel, being near a beach and cant go there... :(
I thought i was with young gang who'll b full with enthu and Zeal to enjoy themselves but i later got to know i was with Jerks... gud for nothing...

Am really pissed and tried now..
i think ... a good sleep will refresh me.. :)

Ok Ok Ok.. am back...

I here by thank Sonali bhabhi from deepest core of my heart for reminding me of this lil baby of mine... who was being neglected since i moved to this Place.. How cud i forget... this was suppose to me my best friend... a mode to communicate my feelings to HIM, and a place to vent out my anger, frustration... etc etc ...
But now i'll "try" (this word keeps th world moving) to start posting.... there is so much to write e'day but ....... but..... and only but............. is all wat i can say to hide my laziness.. :(
Life has stuck between Office and sleep... seems nothing much is Left for me to do..
But it feels gud to be back on this blogger world...

So the countdown begans....

Since the days are approaching for me to shift i have started feeling nostalgic...



last 10days had great fun... partied every night.... went for long drives.... amzing dinner evenings... Ah... wow...
and now have started wid my packing .. OPPS its really pain in ***,

Feeling quite low today... and on top of that when e'one around keep sayin we'll miss u .. just cant stop my tears...
Dun feel like moving now... will miss my home too much.. and esp my room..

Few things which i'll miss the most...

- My car...oh ! i just love it ... dun wrry sweetheart.. will take u wid me soon.. :)
- my room
- my dogs
- ruchita-vivek.. :(
- WINTERS.. oh i love winters and damm this time only there has to be amazing winter collection e'wher .. ;(
- Bunking office n going for a movie...

thought the list is long ... but its true tht ther is nothing like ur HOME.. Home Sweet home...
and MOM...

But neways... i beleive in wat ever happens happens for betterment...
Lets see.. wat City of Dreams-- MUMBAI holds for me.. :P
SO MUmbai CAlling....................... will be there soon...

Bye Lucknow... :(

Life @ Call Centre- My Lookout...

I was reading today's Newspaper and read an article on Call Centre n BPO's Culture..
Could not control my feelings... Be this industry good or bad i began my career wid this industry..
Wen all big Companies wanted an degree, and were not ready to place me for my knowledge.. this industry gave me a chance..
And i learned a lot frm there... Be it my communication skill.technical knowledge and did get a chance to rise...

I wonder why now a days this industry is been looked down?
Is it because Retail, Insurance, or IT is coming up in the market... or its because teenagers are getin financially secured...
I think i wouldnt have been able to afford a Levis jeans when i was in my grads.. i had many guys n gals who were doin ther grads and were wrking there, earning well.. in fact there take home was equal to a Banking Executive... who keep beggin in front of you to get a credit card, invest in a policy,but dont they have targets? dont they have stress.. the only difference is that they dont have night shifts.. No, in fact now a days big IT Companies have nite shifts...

The article contains views of principals of LSR, Sri Venkateswara College,Ramjas College, these college are one of the best colleges and have the potential to get there students placed in top notch companies...
But wat about those institutes where no one one goes for placements... lets talk about some small colleges where there are students who have the potential but they dont get the opportunity, cos they are not from big colleges
For people like me who are not from very reputed College, Call Centers give a start.. I have learned a lot from IBM.. and till date i thank my team leaders, my team mates...

For them these call centers are bliss.. atleast they are financially secured, they dont have to beg in front of there parents to give them pocket money...

I agree with the fact that its not for a long term.. there is no point for staying there for long if ur not growing there .... one should look for better opportunities n move on...
And this is applicable to all the industries... check out the Attriation rate in Banking Industries, IT industries ets... i think they are neck to neck wid BPO's...

But this wrong to say that this industry's (BPO'S) stress level is high, biological cycle is disturbed...
This happens in almost all the indstries.. i have my friend who works for a Mutual Fund Orgn- on month end he comes bck home at 2 Am or may be later...
IT Companies put so much pressure wen the project deadlines are near..
The fact is that all this is not evident, where as in BPO's it known to all....

Good n BAd is part of all Industries.... its wrong to keep highlighting about only one in particular...

i learnt the value of money.. i rem the day wen i had only 50 bucks at end of the month...
Above all.. i learnt to be patient... which i lacked...
it has changed my personality competely....
I personally feel that this industry has too much to teach..

Emotional Begging - His side of the Story...

So my sweetheart's story goes like this ----

The root cause of his betrayal is his BAI-- Sunita Bai... who stopped ironing his clothes, and than my poor sweetie had to go out get his clothes dun...

Actually it happens like this- While he was getting his clothes ironed, there came a family, who wanted some money to go to nagpur as he lost his wallet... he asked him ," साहब! हमारी हेल्प करो, हमारे पास पैसे नही हैं, हमे खाना खाना है और फिर नागपुर जाना है। आप टेंशन मत लो हम अच्छे घर के लोग हैं।घर पौचते ही पैसे वापस दे देंगे।" than he asked them, " घर ऐसे जाओगे? " he replied, " दादर से ट्रेन है। " my sweetheart was so concerned, he asked them," खान क्या खाओगे? the man replied, " कुछ भी खा लेंगे । "
and this time Shona was thinking that if i give them money to eat than how will he buy, SONY BRAVIA LCD T.V., the amount of ticket+ food, will equal to one installment of the EMI.. ( wat an amazing thought, at an equally amazing situation.. :P)

he was about to give money to them, but suddenly it reminded him of the same kindda incidence which took place wid him in Gurgaon, few years ago..
that was like (quoted in his own wrds) --- " wo ek middle aged insan tha decent sa laga...usne kaha paise khatm ho gaye hain uske pass usko bus ki ticket ke liye rupaye chahiye..aur kaha ki ghar pahunchte hi wo mujhe lauta dega...uss waqt shayad SONY Bravia market me ya aya nahin tha ya need generate nahin huee thee...mene de diye pese aur apna address bhi de diya lekin usne mujhe pese lautaye nahin. :( " ah my poor baby)...
i was realy keen to know how much money did he lent... and trust me just couldnt stop laughing wen i got to knw the amount-- it was an hefty amount of RS 20..
and than my question was...
20 rs woh aapko wapas karta woh bhi courier se? itna toh courier main lag jata ....
and his reply--
uss waqt ka 20 aajke hisab se kam hai lekin tab wo ek respectable amount tha
and than mine," hehehhehehehehe.............. as if yeh last century ki baat hai "
he said,"meri jayadad(his legacy) se 20 rupaye kam hue they mazak nahin hai, haso mat, aaj bhi main jab uss bat ko yad karta hun to meri rooh kaap uthti hai."
iss bar to mujhe laga ki navratri bhi shuru ho gayee hai chanchal ne fast bhi rakha hai aur mene nahin ..kahin bhagwan roop badal ke meri pariksha to nahin le rahe

And on this.. i just stop laughing... was literally rolling on my bed...

he continued, " Fir mene bht socha, asan nahin hota aisee situation me deal karna"
i said," ur a marketing guy by now u must have learned this... "
he told me," main soch raha tha agar ye ache ghar ke log hai to taxi karke ghar chale jao aur ghar pahuch ke paise de do....par mujhe laga taxi wala nagpur kese jayega
i asked him," kyun nagpur taxi nahi jati kya?'
he said,"arey jati hogee lekin ache ghar ke log taxi se nahin jate bus/train/air,phir main soch raha tha paise kahtam ho gaye to kya hua credit card to hoga."

and i was half dead laughin it out...

thn he raised a very gud point - aur india me 20 crore logo ke pass mobile hai...iske pass kyu nahin hai...usko bech ke ghar chala jaye,main decide nahin kar pa raha tha to mene talne ke liye keh diya main abhi 5 min me ata hun aur mera yahin wait karo...fir bas usne keh diya ki agar aap nahin aye toh........ tab maine socha....sala main yaha soch soch ke pareshan tumharee problem kese solve ki jaye aur tum mujhpe trust hi nahin kar rahe upar se mujhse expect kar rahe ki main trust karun.... ussi ki maa ka... (his fav dialogue)
he actually had a point.... a real strong one... in fact logical one..

ok, let me continue as the Story has taken an unusual turn...

his insights now," baad me jab wo banda iron kar rha tha meri dockers ki shirt pe, toh mere ko laga ki kahin aisa to nahi ab bhagwan mujhse badla lenge aur meri ye shirt jalwa denge...mene usse kaha thoda aram se karna press,fir waha se main khana khane gaya..wo kapde polythene me they ...mene side me rakh diye..maine socha kahin aisa to nahin ki ye polyhtene achanak bhagwan gayab kar de..isliye main use dekh dekh kar khana kha raha tha..fir uske baad jab main hath dhone gaya tab bhi meri nazar polythene par thee....mene socha jaldee jaldee hath dhota hun..lekin mere aagey ek aur banda tha..main uss bande ko man hi man galiyan de raha tha ki itni der kyu kar raha hai...main polythene bhi dekh raha tha....itne me mere peeche wala banda bola aagey badho ..mere aage wala banda hath dho chuka tha....maine jaldee jaldee hath dhoye,aur fat se polythene pakdee, aur phir jab pay karne gaya to amma ne bola 5 rupaye aur do...main kaha kyu..usne kaha ki thali 35 rupees ki ho gayee hai...mujhe laga bhagwan mujhse kahin badla to nahin le raha thali ko expensive karke 5 rupaye waha adjust karna chahta ho....
ghar pahunchne ke baad mene socha.........who is responsible for all this...the answer was obvious (his BAI)....aur mene apne rumal,bedsheet dhone ke liye patak diye...(end of story)

god damit... till now i just cud'nt stop laughing .. wondering about the thought process, one goes thru in any kindda situation. I mean just imagine... s'one is begging in front of u and ur thinking of ur EMI payments... Ah.. like right now am thinking of the movie in which rahul bose, gets to knw wat in the mind.. (dun exactly remember the name of the movie)

But this was hilarious, actually he narrated it in a funny manner... but if u think about it ... one really has a point here.... jokes apart, on very serious notes, how can we really believe, that people like them, really need money.. and they are not fooling us..

it happened wid me once, a vry old aged man came to me as asked me to give some money to eat food as his sons have kicked him out of his house and also wants money to go to his village... i saw his tearful eyes and gave him 100 bucks..
after a while i saw him near a model shop buying a bottle of liquor.. i was zapped ... and hurt.. this emotional begging have become fashion now...
cos of which people have stopped trusting genuine people, who really need some help...

just wish... god give us some power to knw who is actually in need and who is not... and
save Him from such kindda people... :P